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25 04, 2017

Too Much Time with Family over the Holidays? Goldstein Therapy- Clifton, NJ

2017-12-31T21:32:45+00:00

family

Has Holiday Time with the Family Shaken you Up Emotionally?

You are of course not alone!

Spending the holidays with family can be a great chance to reconnect but also a serious stressor that can bring up old issues of sibling rivalry, territoriality, competitiveness, boundary difficulties, and perhaps hardest […]

Too Much Time with Family over the Holidays? Goldstein Therapy- Clifton, NJ2017-12-31T21:32:45+00:00
19 03, 2017

Podcast: Avoiding the Relationship Comfort Zone

2017-12-31T21:21:12+00:00

 

Healthy relationships are all about feeling emotionally safe, right?? Wrong!

Learn how to avoid the relationship comfort zone in this newly released podcast: http://www.idopodcast.com/mirel-goldstein/

In this episode we cover relationship topics that include:

  • How to balance emotional risk with emotional safety in […]
Podcast: Avoiding the Relationship Comfort Zone2017-12-31T21:21:12+00:00
28 02, 2017

Insights about Relationship Triangles, Goldstein Therapy, Clifton NJ

2017-09-11T16:40:52+00:00

 

Is “Three a Crowd” when it comes to relationships?

When I was in graduate school, the idea of using triangulation in relationships had a pretty bad rap. But there are healthy things about relationship triangles too. (As an aside, a great book that discusses triangulation […]

Insights about Relationship Triangles, Goldstein Therapy, Clifton NJ2017-09-11T16:40:52+00:00
23 01, 2017

When You’re Tired of the Pain- Goldstein Therapy- Clifton, NJ

2017-09-11T16:40:52+00:00

therapy for traumaWhen You’re Tired of the Pain

If you’ve ever looked at the people around you and wondered, Why does everybody seem to have it so easy when I have it so hard, no matter how hard I try, then you might know what […]

When You’re Tired of the Pain- Goldstein Therapy- Clifton, NJ2017-09-11T16:40:52+00:00
15 11, 2016

Why Talking Matters- Goldstein Therapy- Clifton,NJ

2017-09-11T16:40:52+00:00

keeping passion aliveTo speak or not to speak?

Many people wonder why it’s a good thing to talk about problems, feelings, memories, and more, instead of just pushing them away and forgetting about them. This is especially true when the act of talking seems to […]

Why Talking Matters- Goldstein Therapy- Clifton,NJ2017-09-11T16:40:52+00:00
12 07, 2016

Intimate Partner Abuse: Some Inner Dynamics

2017-09-11T16:40:53+00:00

disappointmentWho is this person who abuses his/her partner?

(For the sake of simplicity, I at times have used the male pronoun to refer to the abuser, and the female pronoun to refer to the victim. In reality, the roles of victim and perpetrator are not […]

Intimate Partner Abuse: Some Inner Dynamics2017-09-11T16:40:53+00:00
7 03, 2016

Attachment Styles and Relationships- Goldstein Therapy- Clifton, NJ

2017-09-11T16:40:53+00:00

therapy for trauma

I received many requests to create a follow up video after posting my video on “Dismissive Attachment”. Many people expressed that they wanted to hear more about the other attachment styles as well. I offer some more general thoughts about the different […]

Attachment Styles and Relationships- Goldstein Therapy- Clifton, NJ2017-09-11T16:40:53+00:00
15 02, 2016

Reading Between the Lines in Couples Therapy- Goldstein Therapy- Clifton, NJ

2017-09-11T16:40:53+00:00

disappointmentReading Between the Lines in Couples Therapy- When Actions Say What Words Cannot

For the therapist who believes that there’s “more than meets the eye” when it comes to the common complaints that couples come in with, it can be a real challenge to figure […]

Reading Between the Lines in Couples Therapy- Goldstein Therapy- Clifton, NJ2017-09-11T16:40:53+00:00
8 11, 2015

Coping with Grief- Goldstein Therapy- Clifton, NJ

2017-09-11T16:40:53+00:00

coping with grief

 

Coping with Grief
There are many types of losses that we all face, some major- like a death or relationship breakup- and some less so- like a missed opportunity or saying no to something we want to do. How we cope with disappointments, not getting […]

Coping with Grief- Goldstein Therapy- Clifton, NJ2017-09-11T16:40:53+00:00